3 Squirting Myths, Debunked

In the realm of mythical female sexuality, there is nothing so mythical as female ejaculation. Also known as squirting, it’s a favorite porn subgenre, and something a lot of women feel bad for overachieving or underachieving.   Before we dispel any myths about squirting itself, here’s one I want to clear up right away: it’s […]

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Want To Try Something New In Bed? How To Negotiate Fairly And Honestly

Sexual curiosity and openness are at the heart of a fulfilling, exciting sex life. That’s why you’re here, isn’t it? My Little Vixen’s blog is filled with sex tips and ideas for new things to try. You can learn everything you’ve ever wanted to know about kink, or anal sex, or blowjobs. But knowing and […]

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A Girl’s Guide to Having Safer Sex

Navigating the safer sex talk when you’re nonmonogamous can feel awkward, tricky, and clumsy. I’ve been navigating the safer sex talk as an ethical slut for four years now. Sometimes it still feels daunting especially when I’m having this talk with a new lover. I want to share with you four ways I’ve felt confident […]

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An Introduction to Femdom 101

Ever since the 50 Shades phenomenon, more and more “vanilla” couples have been exploring BDSM; but the tips, tricks, and narratives for heterosexual couples tend to play to the traditional powerful man/submissive women. Female domination is a way to flip the script and discover some of your feminine sexual power. -Vibe- Women in our culture […]

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How To Explore Your Submissive Side

Do you fantasize about acceding to your partner’s every wish? Do you dream of being their maid, assistant, sex slave? As any submissive will tell you, giving up power is powerfully erotic. (Consensually) being in someone else’s power frees you from the worries of making decisions, helps you focus your attention on pleasing your partner, […]

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Using Venus in your Natal Chart to Make You a Better Lover

Do you even know Venus, like for real know Venus? I mean, I know we all want to imitate and replicate, praise and worship, embody and express her royal highness. We put her on our altar, we conjure her in the bedroom, and we dress ourselves to adore her spirit, but do you know how […]

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Five Things to Keep in Mind about Period Sex


Period sex means different things to everyone; to some, it’s a messy inconvenience, to others it’s a kink, and to me personally, it just feels like regular sex just with a little extra clean up. Either way, having sex on your period is something we probably don’t think about as much as we really should. […]

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Is Polyamory For You? The Skills You Need To Date More Than One Person

Polyamory and open relationships are having their moment in the spotlight these days. Every publication has had its think piece on polyamory: how unusual and challenging it is, how it changes the way we see relationships, how it expands our ideas about love and faithfulness. But few of these pieces get to the nitty gritty […]

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Vixen Sex Expert of The Month: Raquel Savage

  This month’s Vixen Sexpert of the Month is as ferocious and fearless as she is educated. Raquel Savage is a board certified sex therapist and host of The Savage Life where she discusses a range of topics from sexuality to women’s issues. If you follow her on Twitter, you know she is a fire […]

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Kinky Tips on How to Give The Best Blow Job

“A man will like a woman if she has good pussy, but he’ll love her if she gives good head.” This is honestly my personal life experience. Beyond that, I often read a lot of “what men wish women knew” writings and “how to give a good blow job” is almost always at the top […]

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