Things you’ll only get if you’ve been with your partner for a long time

If you settle down on a relationship when you’re in your twenties, many people could classify you as “boring.” I’m 29, and I have been in a relationship for a little more than four years and things are not the same as when I started dating my boyfriend. Here are some things you’ll know if […]

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3 Squirting Myths, Debunked

In the realm of mythical female sexuality, there is nothing so mythical as female ejaculation. Also known as squirting, it’s a favorite porn subgenre, and something a lot of women feel bad for overachieving or underachieving.   Before we dispel any myths about squirting itself, here’s one I want to clear up right away: it’s […]

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Want To Try Something New In Bed? How To Negotiate Fairly And Honestly

Sexual curiosity and openness are at the heart of a fulfilling, exciting sex life. That’s why you’re here, isn’t it? My Little Vixen’s blog is filled with sex tips and ideas for new things to try. You can learn everything you’ve ever wanted to know about kink, or anal sex, or blowjobs. But knowing and […]

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A Girl’s Guide to Having Safer Sex

Navigating the safer sex talk when you’re nonmonogamous can feel awkward, tricky, and clumsy. I’ve been navigating the safer sex talk as an ethical slut for four years now. Sometimes it still feels daunting especially when I’m having this talk with a new lover. I want to share with you four ways I’ve felt confident […]

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How To Explore Your Submissive Side

Do you fantasize about acceding to your partner’s every wish? Do you dream of being their maid, assistant, sex slave? As any submissive will tell you, giving up power is powerfully erotic. (Consensually) being in someone else’s power frees you from the worries of making decisions, helps you focus your attention on pleasing your partner, […]

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Is Polyamory For You? The Skills You Need To Date More Than One Person

Polyamory and open relationships are having their moment in the spotlight these days. Every publication has had its think piece on polyamory: how unusual and challenging it is, how it changes the way we see relationships, how it expands our ideas about love and faithfulness. But few of these pieces get to the nitty gritty […]

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How to Snag a Dope Brotha: A New Kind of Dating Club

In a world of Tinder dates and mobile dating apps, looking for love in this day in age is like a minefield. Many different websites promise you to help you connect with your soulmate whether it’s based on culture, location, hobbies, or any preference you could have how do you what to chose from. Well […]

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What is feels like to be a cheater

It feels like lying. To the entire world. It feels like keeping track of stories, writing down words, so you don’t forget what you said, it feels like telling your story over again. It feels like robbing someone else of happiness; it seems like theft. It feels like embarrassment. To have no self-control, to be […]

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Conversations with Oloni, the UK’s leading dating expert

Dear Oloni is a popular sex and dating forum created by Oloni, a London-based blogger who runs www.simplyoloni.com. We decided to have a sit-down conversation with Oloni about her new book called 100 questions and how she came to her rise as the popular dating expert. 1. So tell us how you got started in […]

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Sex Talk: Is Casual Sex Really That Casual?

Never did I think we would be in a world where our shot at love and a healthy relationship was up to the Tinder Gods or any other dating app that promises you a life of companionship. Dating used to be something that forged from organic chemistry with people six degrees from a close friend […]

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